Add push reminders for sleep, pee, poo and meals

A closed PWA has no timers, so reminders are evaluated on the server: the
event log is already there (clients sync on every mutation), and a ticker
re-checks each enabled rule once a minute and pushes the ones that are due.

Two rule shapes. "sleep" measures from the last sleep-end and fires only
while the puppy is awake. "pee"/"poo"/"eat" measure from the newest event of
that type and stay quiet while the puppy is asleep — otherwise they nag all
night, and suppressing them means an overdue rule instead fires promptly on
waking, which is when it actually matters. Sleep state is derived exactly the
way currentSleepState() does in app.js, tie-break included, so both sides
always agree. Rules read the event's own timestamp rather than when it synced,
so a pee logged offline at 03:10 cancels the reminder retroactively.

Every push carries a tag, so a repeat replaces the previous notification
instead of stacking another one on the lock screen. last_fired is server-owned
and not writable by a client, so a stale device can't force a re-fire.

Web Push is implemented directly rather than pulled in as a dependency: RFC
8291 encryption in the RFC 8188 aes128gcm coding with an RFC 8292 VAPID token,
stdlib only, checked against the RFC 8291 test vector. The key is generated
into vapid.json beside the DB or supplied via -vapid-key; without one the
server logs a warning, skips registering the routes, and the client hides the
UI. Subscriptions a push service reports as 404/410 are dropped.

PNG icons are added because iOS gates push on a Home Screen install and
rejects SVG for apple-touch-icon, and Android has no notification icon
without them.

src/changelog.json

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+  { "date": "2026-08-20", "text": "Added reminders: turn them on in Settings and your phone gets a notification when it's time to sleep (\"Awake for 45 min\") or when there's been no pee, poo or meal for a while. Each one has its own interval, they arrive even with the app closed, and they stay quiet while the puppy is logged as asleep so you're not nagged all night. On iPhone, add Puppy Tracker to your Home Screen first — iOS only allows notifications for installed apps" },
   { "date": "2026-08-18", "text": "The sleep button that would just repeat the last one is now disabled: while asleep you can only tap ⏰ Sleep end, and while awake only 😴 Sleep start — no more accidental double taps creating zero-length sleep windows. If you did miss a boundary, you can still add it at the right time from the event log" },
   { "date": "2026-08-02", "text": "Added free-text notes: tap 📝 Note to jot down things that happened on a day — vaccinations, vet visits, milestones — with a date, optional photo, and any text. All your notes are collected in a new Notes section that stays visible whatever day you're viewing, so you can see at a glance when things like a tick vaccination were done" },
   { "date": "2026-08-02", "text": "The Daily counts chart now has Pees / Poos / Meals checkboxes so you can focus on just the metrics you care about — untick the rest to see, say, only poos; your choice is remembered" },