Store events and config in SQLite

Replace the JSON-file event and config stores with a SQLite database
(modernc.org/sqlite, pure-Go so the static build keeps CGO_ENABLED=0).
Last-write-wins now rides on the upsert's WHERE clause rather than a
Go-side map compare; the sync protocol and HTTP handlers are unchanged.

On first start the server auto-imports any legacy events.json/config.json
sitting in the data dir, renaming them to *.imported. The -data flag now
points at puppy.db; photos still live on the filesystem alongside it.

Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 4.8 <noreply@anthropic.com>

server/go.mod

@@ -1,3 +1,17 @@
 module puppy-tracker
 
-go 1.22
+go 1.25.0
+
+require modernc.org/sqlite v1.53.0
+
+require (
+	github.com/dustin/go-humanize v1.0.1 // indirect
+	github.com/google/uuid v1.6.0 // indirect
+	github.com/mattn/go-isatty v0.0.20 // indirect
+	github.com/ncruces/go-strftime v1.0.0 // indirect
+	github.com/remyoudompheng/bigfft v0.0.0-20230129092748-24d4a6f8daec // indirect
+	golang.org/x/sys v0.44.0 // indirect
+	modernc.org/libc v1.73.4 // indirect
+	modernc.org/mathutil v1.7.1 // indirect
+	modernc.org/memory v1.11.0 // indirect
+)